There are numerous moments when we say something in anger and regret immediately and feel guilty for hurting loved ones. Then we wish to bring back the time and erase spoken words. Unfortunately, words once said can’t be erased. Anger is an emotion that easily transforms into sadness, hurt and very often into violence. Anger emerges when we do not agree with someone’s opinion! Even though it is a normal thing, given the fact that we all are different and that there are not two same persons in the universe! When we talk about such, normal situation, it can draw the worst of us and make us say bad words such as: “I hate you”. But after you calm down, you regret deeply for telling such bad things and you understand that every human being is entitled to his own opinion. You sincerely say “I am sorry”.
But, although friend accepts apology, something went missing in your relationship. Friendship is no longer the same, full satisfaction and easiness despair from moments you spend together. Complete trust went missing.
Harsh words said can hurt both you and the other person very much, even though it seems to you as not important and meaningless, such as: “That haircut looks so bad on you” …
These situations can be avoided with one golden rule: Always think before you speak!
If you really do not like that haircut, you can say “I am not used to your new haircut, once I see you more often I will give you feedback…”
Words are one of the instruments based on which we build the world! Spiritually aware statement has huge power.
Sound of spoken word can change things same as consciousnessabout them… let’s explain it a bit… Everything around us, every man and every object, consists of energy units that change in unique order of vibration. Scientist tell us that everything has its own sound and everything vibrates and has its own vibration. Sound vibrations influence matter.
We can see it from one example: By drawing a bow across the edge of the metal plate on which was spilled sand, geometrical figures appeared as a result of plate vibrations. Does this mean that the words we speak daily gain physical shape in our bodies and participate in creation of life circumstances?
Remember what happens with your face and body when you say something nice? When you are angry? How do you feel when someone angry at you speaks to you, or insults you, or expects something from you? You can hear:” When he told me that, as if he slapped me”!
What we should like to add with special love, is that it is very important how you talk to your children, especially when they are young. They, unselectively, receive your words and that influence creation of their habits, because you are their role model now! Observe your children how they behave, and you will see your mirror reflection! Children are also your artwork; do you like it?
The verse from the Old Testament, Book of Proverbs 15:23 “The man rejoices by the answer of his mouth, and the rod in a time so good”!
“Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken.” Horace
Therefore, work on abandoning the habit of bad talk and you will create different magical world, by time, the world of figures you will enjoy!